Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Coronavirus Prayer Guide



Coronavirus Prayer Guide


Let us pray about the short and long-term impacts of the Coronavirus. Let’s pray earnestly for family members, friends, and many others worldwide. Let us pray for others like we would want them to pray for us.  


As a retired person, so I have had more time to research and ponder this matter than those who must juggle family responsibilities, careers, and other demands on their time. 


The following is a simple summary of important matters related to the Coronavirus. This goes far beyond personal health concerns. There are many other considerations. Each of these considerations can serve as fuel for your faith-filled prayers. 


We have been blessed as Christians to have a personal relationship with the living God. We have the Bible and the Holy Spirit to train us in how to pray. The Word of God instructs us to put on the armor of God and pray for others. So we are not powerless spectators to an unfolding worldwide pandemic. Instead, we are colaborers with God in the protection, healing, and blessings of fellow humans. Prayer is a mighty force for good. Let us come to God humbly. Let us be bold in our faith in Jesus. Let us be fervent, persistent, and consistent in our prayers.  


Please let the following information serve as seeds in your mind and heart. Feel free to do your own research online or elsewhere to learn more and keep up to date. 


Do not let the waves of news on this subject fuel your fears or destroy your hope. Allow this season to be one when you practiced prayer more and better than ever. Let the love of God flow through your prayers. 


Thankfully the Coronavirus has not come to the USA in large numbers yet. However, employees in the USA, travel nationally and internationally. And there are those who travel for pleasure. It is possible in the coming months that some may encounter the Coronavirus and then return to infect their contacts in various locations. So we are not totally immune to the Coronavirus ever getting to our communities in the coming years. Therefore let us pray that God will guide us all in taking prudent measures to prevent the spread of this virus. 


Besides the health concerns, there are also the rippling impacts in the economy. Already many large communities in China, Italy, Iran, and elsewhere have been quarantined. Therefore people cannot go to work. When they do not go to work then they do not produce products and services. That disrupts local, national, and international supply chains. When products are not made and shipped than others cannot sell and buy. This includes food. That ripples out to us in the USA and everyone else. Walmart in other stores sell products that were made in China a few months ago. So this impacts what is on the shelves and the paychecks of workers. 


There have been travel restrictions that have already had impacts and will have rippling impacts. 


The concern about the disruptions of the supply chains and travel restrictions has led the prices in the stock markets to fall. That has an impact on the financial well being of many millions already. It is unknown when this downward trend will turn around. 


Note that the 2020 Summer Olympics is still scheduled in Tokyo from July 24 to August 9. If I was a virus that wanted to find an abundance of new hosts then I would seek such a setting. In that megacity, there will be untold thousands of athletes, spectators, and journalists coming and going from nearly every country.  So what might happen a few months after the Olympics in countries that currently do not have many cases?


Note that for each person who dies of the Coronavirus (or any other cause) there are many around them that will be plunged into grief. Consider how many attend any funeral or memorial service. Each person in their own way must deal with grief sooner or later. I have never met or heard of a person that dealt with major grief easily.  


There are elements of worry, uncertainty, and fear experienced by those who consume the news about the Coronavirus. Consider senior citizens that sit at home and just watch TV all day and all night. They are vulnerable to any disease. In their isolation from family and friends, their thoughts and feelings can spin around and around. May God shield their hearts and minds. 


Fears related to news about Coronavirus (or any topic) can paralyze the mind and limit clear thinking about practical options. Let us monitor our thoughts and feelings. Let us help others to gain a balanced perspective on this and other matters. Let us seek, find and focus on that which is positive and hope-filled.


We are blessed to live in a developed country here in the USA. But notice that there are billions of fellow humans that are not so blessed. Millions of them have not had easy access to plenty of food, clean water, and health care services. They are vulnerable. Our love and concern for them can be expressed in earnest prayers. 


Let’s pray that God will guide us on how to take suitable measures to be ready for possible future conditions. Besides getting ready, pray that we respond to situations wisely as they arise in the coming months. 


Let’s pray for God to grant wisdom and guidance to all the political leaders and scientific experts. May they set aside their differences and come together for the common good. 


Let’s pray that objective and truthful information be shared. May God make a way that the media decrease the sensationalism and fear-mongering. May they minimize making everything about politics and the president. 


Some say to prepare for the worst while hoping for the best. Such a response might be wise in this case and other kinds of potential threats like hurricanes, forest fires, and earthquakes. 


May we fully trust in the Lord with all our hearts while not leaning to our understanding. May we acknowledge Him in all your ways about this and related issues. Then God will guide our paths. Proverbs 3:5,6.


(You are invited to use any and all of this in your personal prayer life and during prayer times with your families and others. You can forward this if it came to you as an email. You can print out the PDF for your personal use and share it with others. You're invited to adapt it and change it as you please.) 

Shalom, John S. Oliver fellowpilgrim@gmail.com 

Thursday, February 27, 2020

Introducing Myself

There was a book that had a major impact on me.
Know Me, Like Me Follow Me by Penny Power.
She teaches that in order to be successful online you need to reveal your true self.
Then people get to know the person behind the product or service.
They have a chance to like or dislike you.
When they like you then they are more likely to follow you.
The following leads to sales, repeat sales, word of mouth promotions, and buzz.

So here I will provide just a snapshot of myself.
Then you can know me better. 

This is a rather long post.
When I encounter a wordy webpage or PDF I use this text to speech app.
You might like to have your computer read this and other documents to you. 

These are some simple sound bites I use to describe myself: 

66 years old (in February of 2020)
Baby Boomer generation 

6 foot tall
165 pounds (slim)

Anglo American
short-cropped hair and a gray beard

cisgender 
heterosexual male

single, celibate, and content
I was engaged 3 times but never married. 
I have zero interest in sex or romance.

retired and living alone

born in Houston, Texas
living in Ennis, Texas, that is south of Dallas 
my younger brother is living in St Louis, Missouri
dropped out of college 3 times
self-educated mostly from libraries and the Internet

several near-death experiences

seek to always be honest, responsible, and truthful 
seek to treat others with respect, empathy, and support 
seek to feel purposeful, prolific, and engaged with others. 

People have called me intelligent, articulate, and passionate.

I do not consume alcohol, tobacco, or street drugs.

On the keto diet with a few modifications 
Most of my protein is from pasture-raised eggs.
I include 3 raw eggs in my smoothie most days.
I minimize sugar and carbs, so no bread, cookies, or cake and do not miss them.
Using intermediate fasting, so I eat during an 8-hour window daily.

When dining out I enjoy eating healthy, hearty, home-cooked, and country-style meals.

I enjoy taking a walk most evenings.

I journal many times a week.

I am continually improving my prayer and meditation habits. 
I frequently pray to think clearly, choose wisely, and be grateful. 

Zealously committed Christian that has been seeking ministry for decades.
I have been a member of local churches from various denominations.
I have felt deeply frustrated with the gap between what they say and what they do.
I believe God has called me to pioneer a new kind of ministry I will describe later.

I have known many difficulties, hardships, and challenges.
During my college years, I abused alcohol and drugs.
I was in a church-based rehab for 18 months. 
I have been involved in various 12 step recovery programs that greatly helped me.
I have attended hundreds of 12 step recovery meetings.
I worked the 12 steps several times in various programs.
Those included Al-Anon, Codependents Anonymous, and Celebrate Recovery.
Currently, I attend conference calls for Workaholics Anonymous. 
I am online most of my waking hours.
I take a few online courses each year.
I enjoy writing and I write a few dozen pages each week.
Those are shared on emails, social media, and blogs.
My strengths include researching, writing, planning, and designing educational systems
My three main passions are education, missions, and media.
I am living to leave a lasting legacy of leaders, lessons, and libraries.
My long term goal is to launch and lead an innovative educational nonprofit organization.

Apolitical – I have been disappointed repeatedly by broken campaign promises. 

Fiercely independent in my thinking.
Yet I welcome various inputs and feedback to improve my thinking.

Enneagram Type 1 
INFJ on Myers Briggs 
Strengths Finder results are Futuristic, Learner, Intellection, Responsibility, Connectedness

At my core, I perceive life as an idealist with ultra-high standards for myself and society.
I aim high and plan to achieve great things.
But I have failed to persistently implement many of my grand plans.
So that has forced me to get real with myself and gradually make needed changes in me.
Those changes have various practical steps but all this serves my ideal values.  

I tend to resonate best with missionaries, international students, and church planters.

Health-conscious without being too whacked out about this.
I take several nutritional supplements daily. 

I am grateful for pharmaceutical medicines and surgery, as a last, and not first resort.
I am inclined to favor chiropractic adjustments, therapeutic massages, and detoxing.
I am currently learning about the importance of working with crystals and sounds.

I have begun to spend time before I go to bed at my art table.
There as a beginner I am learning Zengangles, sketchnotes, calligraphy, and drawing.

One of my few recreations is watching videos online at Netflix, Youtube, and Prime.

Movies I like are biography, documentary, nature, science fiction, and historical drama.

Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Recovery Slogans to Ponder and Spark Your Journaling




I have read and said millions of words over the decades. Yet these relatively few words got deep inside my soul at the times and ways that transformed my life.

I offer them in order of importance to me.


    • 1
      • Keep it simple
      • First Things First
      • Live and Let Live
      • Let go and let God
      • One day at a time
    • 2
      • Progress, not perfection
      • HALT = don't get too Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
      • Principles before personalities
    • 3
      • This too will pass
      • We are only as sick as our secrets
      • Cultivate an attitude of gratitude 
      • I was sick and tired of being sick and tired

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Feeling Less Depressed - THANK God


By the grace of God, I am feeling MUCH better.


God has been answering the prayers of many people. 


I am grateful for your support. 


After many days of overcast skies, the sun came out today in the Dallas area. I went for a long walk to bask in the bright sunshine and sat in a porch swing to enjoy more sun.


Lately, my prayers have included MANY more expressions of thanksgiving.


Thankfully, my headaches are GONE.


PROMPTS
Soon after I sent out the recent prayer request I was taking my daily walk. I have always asked God for wisdom and I have asked others to pray for God to grant me wisdom. See James 1: 5 and Proverbs 2, 3 and 4.


During that walk, I felt inspired to notice all the things that are blocking my life. I put those on keywords on index cards. Then I put those cards face up on the dresser so that I see them daily. I have used those cards to remind me to briefly pray over them.  Mostly these are things I have been procrastination about for far too long. 


Please pray for me to make faith-filled prayers as often as needed until these stuck items move and are no longer obstacles. 


JOURNAL
Shortly after I sent out the urgent prayer request earlier I got out a new single subject spiral notebook and Palomino Blackwing pencil. I dumped out all my thoughts and feelings. I kept writing no matter what came up. 


When disturbing thought would occur to me away from the journal I quickly went back to writing in it. I put the dark thought at the top of a new page and asked myself why I felt that way. I kept peeling that onion. 


Gradually the pain behind that impulse dissolved.  The writing was full of uck expressed in different ways. It rarely repeated. Doing that was like taking medicine for sickness. I am ready to continue but the drive to dig into those places has decreased.


MEDITATION
I know that most Christians are not keen on meditation. Yet both prayer and meditation are highly recommended in the 12 step recovery program meetings I have attended. Just stopping to observe the breath can help to calm the mind and emotions. What works for me is to breathe slowly and count my breaths from 1 to 10 and start again counting from 1 to 10. I have done that many times this week and used the recorded guided meditations. 


DRAW
I have not yet begun the Draw-a-Box https://drawabox.com/ lessons. I feel intimidated after scanning the lessons. I believe it will be a great way for me to finally understand and apply the fundamentals of drawing in the long term.


God reminded me of much simpler drawing related books I own. 


Art of Business Communications by Graham Shaw teaches how to make super simple drawings to illustrate business messages. I LOVE to write and when I can include related drawings I made then they would be easier to understand and more appealing. 


Zentangle 1 by Suzanne McNeil is a super simple workbook. I have started and stopped using it many times. A Zentangle is a kid of a doodle on a small unit of paper. There are lots of Youtube videos and websites that offer lessons. But what I have found with those and all other drawing instructions they LEAP from beginner to intermediate and advanced lessons. I need the SIMPLEST lessons that GRADUALLY progress. 


Please pray for me to both begin and continue with any or all these. I put on my calendar to draw on Saturdays. But mostly I have ignored my own guidance. 


NEWS
I have struggled to decrease my news intake. 


Mostly I want to know realistically what are the long term risks of the coronavirus for me, my senior citizen neighbors, and others.


Note that there are about 74 neighbors here in the small apartment complex for seniors. Many of them cannot even walk to the dumpster to take out their trash. So the maintenance man picks it up at their front door on Monday and Thursday mornings.  They could not sit down on the floor or in a bathtub to get up again. They use the walkers with wheels. Many cannot drive. ALL of them watch TV. It is on CONSTANTLY all day and all night. Imagine what it is like for them to get news updates about the coronavirus. 


Please pray for my neighbors and other seniors. Pray for their mental and emotional health amidst all the uncertainty. Most of them are isolated. Family members might make rare contacts. Many of their long term friends may be dead or infirm. A few of them play BINGO weekly and attend the monthly pot luck lunches. 


I know many of them personally. I want to be of service to my neighbors. That service might be to pass along simple and wise recommendations IF the coronavirus reaches our small town. 


TIME
My creative imagination can come up with dozens of appealing projects and hundreds of tiny tasks. So I have been constantly studying time management and productivity. I have used lots of different time management tools. 


Long ago I read the classic time-management book by David Allen titled Getting Things Done https://gettingthingsdone.com/ Here is an infographic that is a summary of the book that has helped many thousands of people https://ideas2followup.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/gtd-workflow.jpg


There are many videos by David Allen about Getting Things Done by others on Youtube.


One part of the system that has helped me the most is to quickly capture new ideas and put them into a system that you trust. So I carry paper and a pen with me all the time. I jot down my fresh ideas. Then I put them on Kanbanflow www.kanbanflow.com where I organize my short term ToDo tasks. These include appointments, purchases, emails, reminders, etc. And for the longer term and Bigi Picture projects, I use Mindmup www.mindmup.com which is an online mind mapping service. 


What David teaches and I have experienced is by doing this I have greater peace of mind. So my brain is not always working to remind me because it knows there is an external record. 


There are so many items online that I use a way to prioritize them. In some areas, I use NOW, NEXT, SOON, LATER and DONE. In other areas, I use High, Medium, and Low priority. 


This has worked well for me for may years. BUT thanks to answered prayers I noticed that this had become far too cluttered. There were lots of duplicates and outdated items. 


I have felt led to review and prune these tools. So it has been like cleaning out a junk drawer, overstuffed closet, and jumbled garage storage area. 


I recall in the old days I had heaps of printed materials in manila file folders. Then every 1 to 3 years I needed to purge and reorder them. 


Just like in the old days this has often felt tedious. But at the end of the day, it was refreshing to look back on nicely ordered areas that had been chaotic. 


This is not busywork. It relates to my recent times of depression. My ToDo lists and projects were far too disorganized. I felt overwhelmed and conflicted. So after some effort, I would quit hide out in some escape activity. 


Little by little, I am getting clarity about both what I need to work on in the short term and how that will contribute to the long terms goals. Please pray for me to have the concentration and strength to complete this digital housecleaning. 


GOALS
My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving. I like to take several days to reflect and genuinely thank God for my recent and past blessings. 


My second most favorite holiday is New Years. I like to look back on the previous year and forward to the coming year. 


On the one hand, New Years Resolutions have been fruitless for me. I seek to change far too much that never becomes a reality. Yet, on the other hand, I have been using a different approach that others advocate. I pick One Word for the year as a core focus. My One Word for 2020 is FOUNDATIONAL. I intend to focus on doing what it takes to lay a good foundation for my growth and development the future years. 


Several of the teachers I follow on Youtube gave guidelines to orient and prepare for 2020. Some of them emphasized thinking super long term like aspirations for the coming decade due to the change from 2019 to 2020. So many of those inspirations cluttered up my online mind maps. 


Those distant horizon ideas for the coming years serve to inspire and motivate me. But I need to keep them in perspective. Then what I concentrate on thee days will lead to those desirable outcomes. 


VISION
What I feel called by God to do for the next 10 years is just like how I have felt led for the last 20 years. I see myself as an educator and a teacher. 


The notes in my files point to launching and leading an innovative educational enterprise. There I will be one of many teachers. 


It will harness the communication tool and methods used in business and apply those for missional purposes. The target market is still international college students studying in the USA. It will be like the Continuing Education departments of colleges. There will be Continuing Education Unit (CEU) credits awarded and certificates. 


Unlike most educational institutions the departments will focus on non-traditional core areas like time management, talent management, academic skills, essentials of Christianity, adulting (basic life skills for young adults), singleness, marriage, and parenting. These are the kinds of lessons that young adults need yet they are rarely taught in a systematic way. 


COURSE and COMMUNITY 
I have been limping along for many years based on what I learned from various teachers online and books. What I have is a patchwork that is better than nothing but very imbalances. 


After many prayed for me I noticed a new online course that is by a teacher I respect and at a price I can afford. Brian Johnson for Optimize https://www.optimize.me/ has begun a new 10-month online mastery course. For only 12.99 a month I have access to the new lessons as they roll out. Plus there is the archive of previous courses. 


And unlike a book, there is an active online community that discusses the lessons. 


What makes Brian Johnson unique is that he has been reading and giving a summary of hundreds of books online for years https://www.youtube.com/user/PhilosophersNotes/playlists 


This course is his way to weave together all he has learned for the last 20 years. This video gives an overview of the course  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoDDsrKUAHo 


I have put taking this online course on my list of projects as a top priority. This aligns with my One Word of FOUNDATIONAL. As I learn and apply the lessons it will pave the way to consistently progress in the future.


You are invited to take the course too. And if you do let me know.


Please pray that I make time to both hear the lessons and do the exercises. Plus what will help me as much or more is engaging with fellow students online. 


CONCLUSION
Studies show that many men die soon after they retire. When there is no meaningful long term pursuit that is linked to short term activities then laziness can set in. Mental, emotional, and physical health can decline. Most of my neighbors are widows because their husbands died long ago. 


The good news is that I can sleep as long as I like and most days that includes a nap. 


I do not need to deal with cranky customers or office politics. 


I do not need to cope with commuting to and from work.


All of those parts are great. 


I have been in Ennis for two and a half years. 


I have dabbled with many projects. 


I have written and shared many units. But they were not part of a long term strategy. 


It is time for me to take responsibility to do what it takes to obey what I believe God has been calling me to do for decades. 


The people who are taking the Optimize mastery course are ready, willing, and able to make radical changes in their lives. They know it will not be easy but it will be worth it in the long term.


I appreciate your prayers. 


I trust that God answers prayers in His way and in His time.


I am grateful that you have read this long message. I wish it was shorter but there are many complicated and inner connected matters in my life. 


Even the act of writing this and the previous message was therapeutic. Always writing means I must translate my various thoughts and feelings into words that make sense. 


Shalom
John